undermining dignity

this video scandal involving hayden kho and katrina halili has been the talk of everyone for weeks now. how katrina danced and performed, how gorgeous the girls are on bed with hayden, how vicky belo maybe seething thru demure act, how the senate hearing went, how this scandal has caused uproar.

one should not tolerate the idea that just because hayden is uber-rich and saksakan ng gwapo that he may have his fill. his fill of sex videos, that is. what was he thinking?! he reasons that he was into drugs that time. a well-thought-of but not enough excuse. i don't really care what goes on in the privacy of the bedrooms of other people but what hayden did was undermine the dignity of his partners. he showed he has no respect for women, that he thinks of them as objects in his fantasies. even if it was vicky belo's or eric chua's (or whoever's) fault that the video has been uploaded onto the web and has worked its way into people's desktop or laptop or even video-capable phones; this would not have happened if hayden has high regard for women.

it pains me to say but i think everyone seems to have already watched a video of hayden's exploits. some may think it fun, or that they were curious what everyone else is talking about, or for their own purpose, i don't know. but everytime a hayden video is viewed, it adds to decreasing value for women in general.

well, i can only blog what i think. my resolve is to not look at sex scandals at all. pray you can do the same thing.